London
Compass Fostering Stands Together for Anti-Bullying Week
Every November, Anti-Bullying Week reminds us of the importance of kindness, empathy, and connection; values that lie at the heart of everything Compass does. It’s a time to listen, reflect, and act; ensuring every child feels safe, supported, and understood.
This year, we spoke with Natalie Wager, Senior Therapeutic Pastoral Lead, to learn more about how bullying impacts young people and how we can all play a part in creating safer spaces for them to thrive.
Natalie’s role involves supporting children and young people with social, emotional, and mental health (SEMH) needs across Compass schools.
“My work is about assessing and responding to trauma, providing therapeutic support, and ensuring children remain at the centre” she explains.
The Hidden Impact of Bullying
During Anti-Bullying Week, Natalie says the most common concerns raised by guardians and young people relate to cyberbullying, social exclusion, verbal abuse, and the emotional toll of bullying. “Guardians often ask how to recognise subtle signs of bullying and how to respond effectively without escalating the situation,” she shares.
The effects of bullying can run deep. “It can lead to increased anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, difficulty forming relationships, and disengagement from learning,” Natalie says. “For trauma-affected children, bullying can trigger past experiences, resulting in behavioural outbursts, withdrawal, or heightened distress.”
How Guardians Can Make a Difference
Natalie highlights five ways guardians can support children who are experiencing bullying outside the home:
- Listen without judgment and validate their feelings.
- Maintain open communication about their day-to-day experiences.
- Work with schools and professionals to ensure concerns are properly addressed.
- Encourage positive peer connections and social activities.
- Model healthy coping strategies and emotional regulation.
These small, consistent actions can make a huge difference, helping children feel heard and supported while empowering them to rebuild confidence.
“Peers play a vital role too,” Natalie adds. “They can offer friendship, include others in activities, and speak up when they see something isn’t right.” Trusted adults, meanwhile, can provide a safe space to talk, help develop coping skills, and liaise with mental health professionals to ensure the right support is in place.
A Message to Young People
This year’s theme, Power for Good, is a message Compass Fostering proudly champions – reminding every young person that their voice matters. By speaking up, showing kindness, and supporting one another, they can help create real change within their communities.
Natalie’s advice to any young person experiencing bullying reflects this spirit of empowerment:
“You are not alone, and the bullying is not your fault. Talk to someone you trust – a guardian, teacher, or key worker. Keeping a record of what’s happening can help adults take action. Remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness”.
At Compass, we believe that every child has the power to make a positive difference – to be a force for good in their own life and in the lives of others. This Anti-Bullying Week, we’re proud to stand beside our young people, reinforcing that together, we have the Power for Good.
Help
Didn’t find what you were looking for?
You can call us on 0800 566 8317 and we will be happy to answer any other questions you may have about fostering with Compass.
